Toys For Boys
It is said that a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, but in my humble opinion a bird in the bush is worth two in the hand any day! (Corny joke.) If I have a choice between the wonderful warm wet smoothness of my beloved’s "secret garden," or having to pump away with my own hand, I will chose making love and real sex any day of the week. But the truth is, a man does not always have that choice. There are times when what we would prefer is simply not available, so men being men, we masturbate. But thanks be to God, we are living in the 21st century. Technology has caught up with solo sex and we are presented with some pleasant possibilities.
It isn’t too long after the adolescent male discovers the sensitivity of his penis and the wonderful pleasures he can enjoy before he wants to improve on the experience. He soon discovers the underwear and swimsuit ads in the Sears catalogue, and usually graduates from there to other things. And today, of course, there is the Internet and a computer behind every closed door.
Eventually he looks for a way to improve on the physics of his private pleasures. Lubrication helps make masturbation easier and more pleasant, as do different textures. An adolescent boy can get quite inventive, experimenting with pillows, rubbing against sheets - you name it, they try it. I remember lubricating the inside of condoms and using them to masturbate. That helped a whole lot. And for a while my favourite masturbation device was a child’s inflatable swim aid. It was meant to go around a small arm, but it held an erect penis just as well. For the price of two dollars and a bit of lubrication I had a makeshift masturbator that was cheap, and fairly effective.
But today, with a bit of cash or a credit card, any of-age male can do so much better. When I knew that masturbation was going to be a major part of my life, I decided that I would purchase anything I could find to make the experience easier, and more enjoyable. Well, not anything. On the high end you can find everything from the anatomically correct Real Dolls that cost almost $7000, to the masturbation machine called the Venus 2000 at about $900. I was not interested in a doll, and not ready for a machine. So I looked for something simpler, and less expensive. I eventually collected a number of “strokers,” pocket pals, masturbators, or artificial vaginas – call them what you will.
both the experience
and the end result
were well worth
To be honest with you, I didn’t quite know what to look for and some of the ones I first purchased were useless crap. They were either too tight, or constructed in a way that just was not pleasing, or effective. But this was my sex life we are talking about, so I persisted. Eventually I discovered some toys for boys that had a more pleasing effect with just the right combination of interior surface and jell like material. What a delight to slip my penis into the warm embrace of just the right sexual toy, and with relative ease stimulate my excitement and enjoy! Believe me, both the experience and the end result were well worth the investment. Plus, I knew I would be sharing my findings with the readers of this site, so I absolutely had to do adequate "research." And, praise be to God, after much experimentation I found a couple of products that are more enjoyable than all others.
The Fantastic Fleshlight
My first quality masturbation toy was the Fleshlight. Oh how I wish I had one of these fantastic devices when I was in my youth! It would have been such a wonderful blessing.
I am no longer young, but I can tell you that I have thanked God over and over again that I am able to use this marvellous masturbator. It has produced many an amazing solo sex moment. In a time when so many Christian youth struggle with temptation toward sexual sin, and fail, I would recommend this to any concerned parent who is sensible enough to see that masturbation is vastly preferable to fornication. It is truly a treasure for all ages. If a person is going to masturbate, they may as well do so with ease, and maximum pleasure.
The Fleshlight comes in four orifices; the three human ones, and one called "non-descript." And there are a number of different inside textures from smooth to vortex. The smooth comes in three interior dimensions; the ¾ inch original, ½ inch super tight, and ¼ inch ultra-tight. And they also come in pink, mocha, and clear. The cases are either clear, or black.
I have seven Fleshlight inserts, and may invest in more as they are always coming out with new ones. Each gives its own unique experience. When I have not masturbated for a while and I am particularly sensitive, I use the smooth. I think my current favourite is either the smooth, or the Stamina Training Unit (STU). Feeling those soft interior gently caressing bumps can be quite exquisite.
How do you use a Fleshlight? I just warm the insert in hot water, lubricate the orifice and inside, and when I am fully erect and ready, I slip it over my penis and stroke away. The results are remarkable.
Another way of using it is to put a shoe on a bed or flat surface and insert the end of the Fleshlight in the shoe with the orifice facing out at an angle. It is then in a stationary position and you can position yourself over it and use it hand free, like in the missionary position during sex. Some people insert it between a mattress and box spring and use it like that. And it can be used with or without the case. It is a toy that lends itself to some enjoyable experimentation.
When you are finished, cleanup is a cinch. Simply remove the insert from the case and rinse it out and put it away till next time. The device is called a Fleshlight because it is enclosed in plastic container that looks like an oversized flashlight.
There is oh so much more that I could say about this marvellous device, but their website is both very detailed, and descriptive, fully illustrating everything I have said. I was going to provide a link to their site, but they have changed the site since I first visited there and made my purchase, and it has become much more explicit. So, I will leave it to your discretion whether or not to go there. If you do visit there, and make a purchase, you will be delighted that you did.
The Fabulous Flip-Hole
The Fleshlight is an American product. But the Japanese have applied their ingenuity to the subject of Solo Sex and have recently come up with some amazing and delightful masturbators. A particularily good one is the Tenga Flip-Hole. It is quite different than the Fleshlight, but produces just as good an experience.
Because I am so delighted by how greatly these products and others have added to my Solo Sex life I have a whole section of this website devoted to Toys. I would encourage you to visit there and discover a whole new world of Solo Sex satisfaction.
God bless you.
P.S. I have not made much mention of gadgets for girls, simply because I have no firsthand knowledge and expertise. However, visit any store that sells erotic aids, whether online or in person, and there is a veritable plethora of sensual equipment that will be sure to assist in your intimate entertainment. The Fleshlight site also has an assortment that may interest you.